being
a Woman in Mozambique…
A Mozambican woman is expected to work and serve all the
time. Culturally it is their responsibility to do all the cooking, all the
cleaning while taking care of their little children and husband.
Imagine everyday tasks
taking twice as long as they should, for example:
No running water – means fetching 5-gallon
buckets of water 10 times a day
No washing machine – means hand-washing
everyone’s clothes
No dishwasher – means hand-washing
dishes
No refrigerator – means cooking
everyday with no left overs
No bathtub or shower – means bucket baths
for all the kids, your husband and youself
No hot water – means boiling hot
water just to have a hot shower or hot coffee or hot food
No electric stove/No Microwave – means starting a
fire to cook or even survive
Imagine these simple utilities that make our everyday
life more simple, especially for mothers.
Ever since I was young girl, I have always had the dream to
get married and have children. The thought of being a stay at home mother has
always been a dream of mine. When I was called to Mozambique, I was always
scared that my dream would never come true.
Over the past few months God began to show me how my love
for Mozambique and family began to connect. Recently we received two more boys
into our permanent housing (Olivio and Cesar) and one boy in our temporary
housing (Salvador). I am currently living with a total of 8 young men. Yes I said 8 YOUNG MEN!!Being
the only woman in the house is sometimes a handful. The boys all study at three
different times of the day and they are also involved with various sports.
They all have different personalities:
Felix is the type of person that can make you smile even when
your having a bad day
Paito is the talented guitarist, whose music fills the walls
of Masana (its amazing)
Nedved is an intelligent, headstrong independent
Olivio is a wanna be gangster but a complete softy
Cesar is one of the strongest young men I have ever known
Salvador is a sweet, rambunctious little munchkin
Hilario is calm and mysterious
Mr Ian is the man of the house, the carpenter, the
electrian, the overall handyman
And I am the ONLY WOMAN!!!
Sometimes the house isn’t as clean as I would like it to be, sometimes we don’t eat as healthy as we should and sometimes we watch way to MANY KUNGFU chinese fighting films (ughh) but I wouldn’t change the little family God has blessed me with for the world.
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